April 07, 2008

Good Idea or Bad Idea?!

I went out with a friend the other night. We went to a local bar that we frequent often. While there, I met a guy. I know picking up boys at bars is not always a good idea, but this guy seems different. We instantly clicked... and I felt completely comfortable around him. He's not from around here, but we decided to exchange numbers. I fully expected to never hear from him again... but he called... twice already. There is just something really interesting about him. I want to get to know him and I think that it is possible. The distance thing does not seem like too much of an issue right now. But I hope that he is not some crazy psycho killer who wants to kidnap me and chop my body into a million pieces. I just keep thinking that this is too good to be true. If I do pursue him, then I will be extremely cautious. The first couple outings will be with a group.. until I feel more comfortable. I just hope that things really will work out.... and I'm super duper excited. Wish me good luck! (or leave your advice.)

2 comments:

Frannie Farmer said...

Go S.L.O.W.
That's the best advice I can give.
That you met in a bar is .. yea, what ever, you never know where you will meet *the one* or *any one* .. it could be good fun. Just go slow and be careful. It sounds like you are being smart and listening to your gut -- do that always ...
FF

christa said...

thanks FF... that's helpful and thoughtful.... I'm tired of people telling me to just forget him because of the odd situation. It's good to hear some positive advice.